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		<title>Comment on I&#8217;m John Galt. No&#8211; I&#8217;M John Galt. by Smashy the Aardvark</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2011/11/18/im-john-galt-no-im-john-galt/#comment-81</link>
		<dc:creator>Smashy the Aardvark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2012 04:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s Lululeotarded.

I find that ad campaign to be cynically ironic somehow. Distasteful, condescending, self aggrandizing, and hilariously pretentious. People who shop at Lululemon are too distracted  texting angry messages to the people who &quot;un-friended&quot; them on Facebook to ever take on a huge book like that. Much less understand what &quot;Who is John Galt&quot; means. I bet they sometimes find themselves having some uncomfortable conversations on the bus.
 
Poor yuppies....The irony of Chip&#039;s &quot;message&quot; is that buying clothes with a branded identity attached is a glaring example of supreme mediocrity. Pretending to do yoga and advertising it by wearing stupid pants isn&#039;t the path towards greatness.

Ayn Rand&#039;s &quot;philosophy&quot; struck me as naive. In her world of awe-inspiring, stoic industrialists, there&#039;s no corporatism or built-in obsolescence of product, oligarchy or corruption.


Anyway, hi there and I like your observations about this. This is the most attention I&#039;ve ever paid to Lululemon in my life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s Lululeotarded.</p>
<p>I find that ad campaign to be cynically ironic somehow. Distasteful, condescending, self aggrandizing, and hilariously pretentious. People who shop at Lululemon are too distracted  texting angry messages to the people who &#8220;un-friended&#8221; them on Facebook to ever take on a huge book like that. Much less understand what &#8220;Who is John Galt&#8221; means. I bet they sometimes find themselves having some uncomfortable conversations on the bus.</p>
<p>Poor yuppies&#8230;.The irony of Chip&#8217;s &#8220;message&#8221; is that buying clothes with a branded identity attached is a glaring example of supreme mediocrity. Pretending to do yoga and advertising it by wearing stupid pants isn&#8217;t the path towards greatness.</p>
<p>Ayn Rand&#8217;s &#8220;philosophy&#8221; struck me as naive. In her world of awe-inspiring, stoic industrialists, there&#8217;s no corporatism or built-in obsolescence of product, oligarchy or corruption.</p>
<p>Anyway, hi there and I like your observations about this. This is the most attention I&#8217;ve ever paid to Lululemon in my life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Big Dance Part 1 by Gary Robertson</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/07/26/the-big-dance-part-1/#comment-80</link>
		<dc:creator>Gary Robertson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2012 16:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all you were a stripper, so what, if you can stick to just doing the job then good for you because the money is outstanding...not like you made a career out of it (the retirement age is pretty low and does not pay quite as well as an NHL player).  What intrigues me is the working relationships that existed there, and how the operations were.  You touched on it, but I am really hoping we learn more about the inner workings of a strip club...this would make a great TLC series.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all you were a stripper, so what, if you can stick to just doing the job then good for you because the money is outstanding&#8230;not like you made a career out of it (the retirement age is pretty low and does not pay quite as well as an NHL player).  What intrigues me is the working relationships that existed there, and how the operations were.  You touched on it, but I am really hoping we learn more about the inner workings of a strip club&#8230;this would make a great TLC series.</p>
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		<title>Comment on On The Nature Of &#8216;Things&#8217;. by di</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/07/24/on-the-nature-of-things-2/#comment-79</link>
		<dc:creator>di</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2012 13:33:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim, you pretty much described my thought process from, jesus, almost two years ago when we started this whole thing. I wanted to know why there was something in me that needed more than what I already have. And I already have a lot. 
To me it&#039;s not about finding &#039;enough&#039; anymore but it&#039;s about finding satisfaction in what I have, and satisfaction in how I&#039;ve acquired it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim, you pretty much described my thought process from, jesus, almost two years ago when we started this whole thing. I wanted to know why there was something in me that needed more than what I already have. And I already have a lot.<br />
To me it&#8217;s not about finding &#8216;enough&#8217; anymore but it&#8217;s about finding satisfaction in what I have, and satisfaction in how I&#8217;ve acquired it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on On The Nature Of &#8216;Things&#8217;. by megansense</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/07/24/on-the-nature-of-things-2/#comment-78</link>
		<dc:creator>megansense</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2012 13:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great work Tim! My favourite part was the Donald Trump paragraph, I think you hit the nail on the head -- when fame and fortune is all you&#039;ve gotten to know, it is all you want, and for what? not security.

I think there is some glamour behind buying an expensive brand, for sure, however I know when I buy things that are glamourous (which I use loosely because I can&#039;t afford Gucci glamour) I think my satisfaction comes from being able to pay for it and earn it myself. Maybe then it is ok to scratch a consumer itch?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great work Tim! My favourite part was the Donald Trump paragraph, I think you hit the nail on the head &#8212; when fame and fortune is all you&#8217;ve gotten to know, it is all you want, and for what? not security.</p>
<p>I think there is some glamour behind buying an expensive brand, for sure, however I know when I buy things that are glamourous (which I use loosely because I can&#8217;t afford Gucci glamour) I think my satisfaction comes from being able to pay for it and earn it myself. Maybe then it is ok to scratch a consumer itch?</p>
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		<title>Comment on 5 ways to get people to click on this post. by Mel</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/07/09/5-ways-to-get-people-to-click-on-this-post/#comment-77</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jul 2012 21:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh &quot;sustainable&quot;...

The comment that provoked this comment was the idea that Tom&#039;s&#039; intention is to create anything other than children with shoes.  Their shoes are probably not worth $60 but they are not of vastly lower quality than anything else.  A friend of mine has worn hers for 3 years and they still work fine (ie no holey soles, etc).  If 3 or 4 years is not a sufficient life span for a shoe, I don&#039;t know what is.  

For $60 you get a decent pair of kicks and some kid gets a covering for their feet where they wouldn&#039;t have.  The cost of mailing a package the size and weight of a pair of shoes to a country like Mali or Niger, where children go barefoot is steep. Granted Tom&#039;s probably has a partnership on shipping rates and the distro is done by World Vision, so they&#039;re making money.  But making money by selling shoes isn&#039;t wrong; in fact making less money by selling shoes and providing kids at risk of stepping on things like diseased needles with other shoes is the opposite of wrong.

For the record, I&#039;m glad you asked the question because it made me think about this issue for about 20 minutes longer than I would have otherwise.  That&#039;s why I loves ya, buddy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh &#8220;sustainable&#8221;&#8230;</p>
<p>The comment that provoked this comment was the idea that Tom&#8217;s&#8217; intention is to create anything other than children with shoes.  Their shoes are probably not worth $60 but they are not of vastly lower quality than anything else.  A friend of mine has worn hers for 3 years and they still work fine (ie no holey soles, etc).  If 3 or 4 years is not a sufficient life span for a shoe, I don&#8217;t know what is.  </p>
<p>For $60 you get a decent pair of kicks and some kid gets a covering for their feet where they wouldn&#8217;t have.  The cost of mailing a package the size and weight of a pair of shoes to a country like Mali or Niger, where children go barefoot is steep. Granted Tom&#8217;s probably has a partnership on shipping rates and the distro is done by World Vision, so they&#8217;re making money.  But making money by selling shoes isn&#8217;t wrong; in fact making less money by selling shoes and providing kids at risk of stepping on things like diseased needles with other shoes is the opposite of wrong.</p>
<p>For the record, I&#8217;m glad you asked the question because it made me think about this issue for about 20 minutes longer than I would have otherwise.  That&#8217;s why I loves ya, buddy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on &#8220;The Organized Creation of Dissatisfaction.*&#8221; by Mel</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/06/18/the-organized-creation-of-dissatisfaction/#comment-76</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2012 22:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aw, geez.  I just wrote this huge opus on Di&#039;s piece and now I have a lot to say about this too.  Can we just have coffee soon, or something?  

PS -  x=y(me): There IS NO SPOON.  Where x is the spoon (i.e. the value that a company wants you to place on their product) and y are the values that I have, just intrinsically, solve for &quot;me&quot; (i.e. my ability to make positive consumer choices and preserve self-image, etc). Good luck in 2012, eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw, geez.  I just wrote this huge opus on Di&#8217;s piece and now I have a lot to say about this too.  Can we just have coffee soon, or something?  </p>
<p>PS &#8211;  x=y(me): There IS NO SPOON.  Where x is the spoon (i.e. the value that a company wants you to place on their product) and y are the values that I have, just intrinsically, solve for &#8220;me&#8221; (i.e. my ability to make positive consumer choices and preserve self-image, etc). Good luck in 2012, eh?</p>
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		<title>Comment on You don&#8217;t have to go home but you can&#8217;t stay here. by Mel</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/06/18/you-dont-have-to-go-home-but-you-cant-stay-here/#comment-75</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jun 2012 22:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said, Di.  This is really timely for me because, having finished a project of my own this year, I made some similar realizations.  Unlike you I am the oldest in my family and I&#039;m terrified of the expectations that I&#039;ve managed to get other people to set for me.  It&#039;s not their fault - I&#039;m balls out crazy and can be as productive as a hummingbird on speed when I&#039;m in the zone - but it leaves me tremendously sketched out about achievements.  I&#039;ve ticked the latest box in my little chart, but the thing that I have been left worrying about for the last... oh about 8 years is that I&#039;m going to be alone forever because no one will want some crazy results oriented goals driven person who can appear to be an ice princess.

The thing about finishing a challenge set out before you isn&#039;t the things that you think you will learn, it&#039;s the stuff that you find yourself learning that you had NO idea would come up... it&#039;s the stuff in the dark and secret places that I don&#039;t like to let people see because  I hate to ask for help or to look vulnerable.  Ever.

I am so intensely happy for you that this project has opened up some of the doors for you that my little project did for me. They aren&#039;t the same doors, but they lead to the same place.  I realized that, unlike those folks in the bar, I don&#039;t need someone to take me home, or someone to come home to, really.  I can want that and look for that, but it&#039;s not a challenge like a Master&#039;s thesis or a PhD.  It is not within my scope to make someone love me... learning that you can&#039;t choose for others but only for yourself is a nice little lesson to tuck away when feeling small and overlooked.  The same way that learning that you are the fierce and phenomenal woman that you are is never going to change no matter whether you are wearing Miu Miu or MEC.  

You&#039;re a champ and in my books, you&#039;re at the head of the class.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said, Di.  This is really timely for me because, having finished a project of my own this year, I made some similar realizations.  Unlike you I am the oldest in my family and I&#8217;m terrified of the expectations that I&#8217;ve managed to get other people to set for me.  It&#8217;s not their fault &#8211; I&#8217;m balls out crazy and can be as productive as a hummingbird on speed when I&#8217;m in the zone &#8211; but it leaves me tremendously sketched out about achievements.  I&#8217;ve ticked the latest box in my little chart, but the thing that I have been left worrying about for the last&#8230; oh about 8 years is that I&#8217;m going to be alone forever because no one will want some crazy results oriented goals driven person who can appear to be an ice princess.</p>
<p>The thing about finishing a challenge set out before you isn&#8217;t the things that you think you will learn, it&#8217;s the stuff that you find yourself learning that you had NO idea would come up&#8230; it&#8217;s the stuff in the dark and secret places that I don&#8217;t like to let people see because  I hate to ask for help or to look vulnerable.  Ever.</p>
<p>I am so intensely happy for you that this project has opened up some of the doors for you that my little project did for me. They aren&#8217;t the same doors, but they lead to the same place.  I realized that, unlike those folks in the bar, I don&#8217;t need someone to take me home, or someone to come home to, really.  I can want that and look for that, but it&#8217;s not a challenge like a Master&#8217;s thesis or a PhD.  It is not within my scope to make someone love me&#8230; learning that you can&#8217;t choose for others but only for yourself is a nice little lesson to tuck away when feeling small and overlooked.  The same way that learning that you are the fierce and phenomenal woman that you are is never going to change no matter whether you are wearing Miu Miu or MEC.  </p>
<p>You&#8217;re a champ and in my books, you&#8217;re at the head of the class.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Clothed and naked. by The King</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/04/23/clothed-and-naked/#comment-74</link>
		<dc:creator>The King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 21:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>two things:
1. this sort of reminds me of the time I asked my daughter&#039;s 6 friends why they all were wearing the same baggy jeans, over sized t-shirt, and piercings and they replied &quot;to express our individually&quot;. 

2. My middle name might be Veblen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>two things:<br />
1. this sort of reminds me of the time I asked my daughter&#8217;s 6 friends why they all were wearing the same baggy jeans, over sized t-shirt, and piercings and they replied &#8220;to express our individually&#8221;. </p>
<p>2. My middle name might be Veblen.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Clothed and naked. by sarahrobertson</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/04/23/clothed-and-naked/#comment-73</link>
		<dc:creator>sarahrobertson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 13:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Tim. This is an exceptionally well thought out and well constructed post...I have to say that you&#039;ve actually convinced me with your argument. And the thing is ~ I like the clothes that &quot;hipsters&quot; wear. The oxford pants,ankle and desert boots, the great hair cuts and large glasses.....I love all of that! I would wear it in a minute and some of those things, I do seek out because I love them. I understand what you&#039;re saying is that the intention to wear a uniform is the signifier for that tribe ~ would you be able to tell that I was not one of them if I wore those clothes? Or would I be missing the one secret ingredient that would give me away as a fake and save me from the scorn of others?
One of the reasons I like clothes as an adult, is a reason that you mentioned in your article. I like being able to be many things. Farm girl, city girl, fancy girl, vintage girl, chic classy girl...because every one of those girls is a part of me. 
I know that means a lot of wasteful and frivolous behaviour on my part because I am buying things out of want and not need,but I feel that moderation is the key and not buying for the sake of it. 
One of the things that I have discovered over the course of this project is my own idea of how others perceive me has gone out the window. I don&#039;t think of it at all anymore except for the &quot;Is this too casual for work?&quot; And I don&#039;t even know if that counts. The only perception I&#039;m worried about now is mine. And yours. Weird right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Tim. This is an exceptionally well thought out and well constructed post&#8230;I have to say that you&#8217;ve actually convinced me with your argument. And the thing is ~ I like the clothes that &#8220;hipsters&#8221; wear. The oxford pants,ankle and desert boots, the great hair cuts and large glasses&#8230;..I love all of that! I would wear it in a minute and some of those things, I do seek out because I love them. I understand what you&#8217;re saying is that the intention to wear a uniform is the signifier for that tribe ~ would you be able to tell that I was not one of them if I wore those clothes? Or would I be missing the one secret ingredient that would give me away as a fake and save me from the scorn of others?<br />
One of the reasons I like clothes as an adult, is a reason that you mentioned in your article. I like being able to be many things. Farm girl, city girl, fancy girl, vintage girl, chic classy girl&#8230;because every one of those girls is a part of me.<br />
I know that means a lot of wasteful and frivolous behaviour on my part because I am buying things out of want and not need,but I feel that moderation is the key and not buying for the sake of it.<br />
One of the things that I have discovered over the course of this project is my own idea of how others perceive me has gone out the window. I don&#8217;t think of it at all anymore except for the &#8220;Is this too casual for work?&#8221; And I don&#8217;t even know if that counts. The only perception I&#8217;m worried about now is mine. And yours. Weird right?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Cake vs. Squirrel and Do I look Fat in this Role? by megansense</title>
		<link>http://slipintoit.com/2012/03/30/cake-vs-squirrel-and-do-i-look-fat-in-this-role/#comment-72</link>
		<dc:creator>megansense</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 17:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When it comes to teen and young adult novels that feature strong and capable women, I feel as though it is more than necessary to portray the characters as healthy and strong in appearance.  With all the screwed up notions of &quot;the perfect body type&quot; that young women (especially) have to sort out, what is that harm in casting a role-model on screen who is healthy, curvy and/or natural looking?  The criticisms of Lawrence are outraging! I feel much better having my cousins see her in the role of Katniss, rather than some toothpick teenager that risks being blown out of an open window.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to teen and young adult novels that feature strong and capable women, I feel as though it is more than necessary to portray the characters as healthy and strong in appearance.  With all the screwed up notions of &#8220;the perfect body type&#8221; that young women (especially) have to sort out, what is that harm in casting a role-model on screen who is healthy, curvy and/or natural looking?  The criticisms of Lawrence are outraging! I feel much better having my cousins see her in the role of Katniss, rather than some toothpick teenager that risks being blown out of an open window.</p>
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